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If you're a tblogger in the Michigan/northern Ohio/northern Indiana area - let's meet! I'll be up there helping a friend make it from point A to point B and we'll be staying Sunday night in Jackson, MI.
So if you're in the area this coming Sunday, 9/25, we could do dinner!
The hotel I'm in has a pool and hot tub so we could even go back there and relax after dinner.
Leave me a tmail if you're interested and we'll swap email/phone information as it gets closer.
Six Feet Under should've won an Emmy. What an amazing show - I miss it already.
Katie got a princess dressup outfit from our friends the Wilchers. She's wearing it right now - pink tutu, crown, jewelry, high heels... sitting in her princess beanbag chair, watching the Swan Princess movie. Adorable. Dave, pics were taken, are on the way!
Antal arrives tomorrow!
The house is still a mess. Well, love me, love my mess :) Sorry!
I still say Six Feet Under should've won. Frances Conroy was fabulous - this year especially.
Guys with the word "tiny" in their nickname probably don't get hit on too often.
Arrrrrr! It be talk like a pirate day! Let the pillaging begin!
Come one, come all! If you're a regular reader of this blog, you're probably of a like-enough mentality to enjoy this community: DecentChat
Yeah, I know - ironic, me forming a group called "Decent" ;)
LiveJournal is free and is STABLE. A nice feature is organized conversations (kinda like the old bulletin boards/newsgroups). When you respond to a comment, your response is indented under the original. That makes it REALLY easy to read.
I had a wonderful experience today. I got an email from an old friend and a photo was included! We've known each other ... yikes, 8 years! I've seen one picture of him, ever, and it's about 10 years old and grainy.
So this picture comes today and I didn't even recognize him. That was quite upsetting! Then I looked again. Mmmmm what a cutie. And I looked again. And again. And then I finally put away the documentation I was supposedly working on because I wasn't getting anywhere!
I'm a lucky gal :) I've been blessed with knowing the COOLEST people.
Emotional hypocrite - nice, coming from you. Here's the truth.
I have issues with the choices you and your mom have made. I talk about it calmly to your face because that's what the COURT said we should do. Keep things as businesslike as possible and cordial as possible, because that is what is best for Katie. You and I talk it out, get things resolved, and move on.
I also have the right to talk with my friend and vent if I want to. I'm glad Steve is my friend. I don't have to give him your side of the story because he is MY friend. And the kinds of comments he made on his post sound a LOT like the kind of thing you used to say about other parents - like the ones bringing their kids into the store at 11 p.m., and so on.
I'd like us to remain friendly towards each other, but I don't want to be your friend. It still hurts too much.
Bobby contacted FEMA. After a day or two of run around, they denied his application because he can't prove any loss.
Errr - don't you have his address from his id? NEW ORLEANS. That city with no power, no water, no sewage... not allowed to live there, no job coz it's closed too... What more proof do you need?
Screw you. He had to walk through all that toxic water just to get out of there. In all likelihood, his apartment has been looted and everything of value gone.
Then a woman said, Speak to us of Joy and Sorrow. And he answered: Your joy is your sorrow unmasked. And the selfsame well from which your laughter rises was ofttimes filled with your tears. And how else can it be? The deeper that sorrow carves into your being, the more joy you can contain. ... Some of you say, "Joy is greater than sorrow," and other say, "Nay, sorrow is the greater." But I say unto you, they are inseparable. Together they come, and when one sits alone with you at your board, remember that the other is asleep upon your bed.
Verily you are suspended like scales between your sorrow and your joy. Only when you are empty are you at a standstill and balanced.
I highlighted the phrase that sticks with me the most.
I often turn to this small little book when I feel stuck. I love Gibran's writing. Speaking of which, here's another snippet:
Work is love made visible. And if you cannot work with love but only with distate, it is better that you should leave your work and sit at the gate of the temple and take alms of those who work with joy. For if you bake bread with indifference, you bake a bitter bread that feeds but half a man's hunger.
And with that, I shall restart my workday :) Have a good one, everyone.
I've written about Bobby many times, but here's another! He's resurfaced, literally, and is safe but flat broke.
Do please Make a Donation. Follow this link to his blogand click the donation button, please? This is a supremely nice human being who needs help getting back on his feet (and is hating accepting help but he'll get over it)
It's been an odd weekend. Tomorrow is a holiday and will be Katie & Daddy day, so I'll be home alone. THIS weekend, I will NOT be going into the office so I'll get to do what I needed to do last weekend - some cleaning and some resting.
My heart and spirit have been through the ringer this week. Mostly hurricane-related, some work. Very little room to complain based on what others are going through. My nerves and emotions feel raw and the slightest thing hurts. I don't like feeling so vulnerable.
I also had an interesting experience today. My mom found 21 year old videos and we watched one. Two observations: First, I was so skinny and cute back then!!! Second, my mom has ALWAYS been bossy. She has very definite ideas about how she wants things done OR "helpful" suggestions how you might do something better. I hadn't remembered that being quite so strong back then, but it's amusing to watch the tape and see her be EXACTLY THE SAME. I love her, but she worries the stew out of everyone :)
I also realized that the last couple years I've been more like her than I want to. I think when I feel vulnerable and afraid, I pull back, and when stressed, I get colder. Deal with facts only. When you feel you're drowning, you don't need fluff.
Sometimes I wish I wasn't so empathetic, and could not take on the pains of the world - just ignore them like it seems a lot of the population does. But I don't want to be cold and emotionless, either - I did my time in that world, hiding my heart behind a big wall of stone and not letting anyone through. True, it reduces the hurt inflicted by others, but it blocks out all warmth and kindess, too. I'd rather take my chances.
Spending most of Labor Day weekend at my parents. It's always good to get a dose of the family :)
My friend Antal is coming over to visit for a few days. I'm really excited and really nervous. He's from the Netherlands, has been around the world - what around here could possibly compare? He's going to be bored out of his gourd - but with the crazy pace of his life, maybe that's exactly what he needs.
My pal Bobby added a bit more to his blog about his New Orleans post-Katrina experiences. It chills me to the bone to hear how humans treat each other.
If you haven't donated yet, please do - the Red Cross or Salvation Army or other legit charity of your choice. Please? My company is doing a 1:1 match of donations - so check with your companies, too.